Submitted by Tim on Fri, 02/13/2009 - 19:56.
Valentine's Day always sneaks up on me. Always. I'm still recovering from Christmas!
I have to admit that in the past I tend to take the easy route when it comes to gift giving-- I send flowers to Beth's work, take her out to eat, get her something really girly. It's a system that is sold to you. It's the way Valentines Day works according to advertising companies.
But over the past year or so, Beth and I have been doing things a little differently. Last year we were forced to be different. At that time I was working second shift, so we didn't have much of a chance to do anything. We got each other some creative gifts (Beth got me the Die Hard trilogy!!! How awesome is that?? Pretty manly of a gift if you ask me).
This year we have set out to be more creative and more personal. For instance, Beth always loves it when I get her something personal that she doesn't realize I knew about. It always surprises her. For instance, I'm planning on getting her something Russian-related (like boots or a coat).
Here are some other things that I've done in the past that are really frugal but meaningful to do:
Make a Mix Tape! - Phil's financial blog mentions this. I don't mean to steal it, but it's something I've always done. When we first started dating I did it almost every few weeks--just because I enjoyed it so much. You can make them incredibly personal and meaningful. They are a blast to make too! Let me know some of your favorite "love" songs. :-)
Home Cooking - Now this is definitely not my strong suit, but part of that makes it all the more meaningful. Beth know's I stink at cooking, but it means a lot to her when I make attempts to. Most of the time they end in failure (like this picture of stew I tried to make), but I still get an A for effort.

Make Your Own Card - How much is construction paper, markers, and glue? Have you and your significant other make your very own Valentines Day cards. It's fun and adds a huge personal touch. Beth used to make me some really neat notes back while we were dating, and I have a few that I still look at to this day.
Go To Wal-Mart and Set a Limit - Beth and I have done this in the past. Go to Wal-Mart (or Target) and set a shopping allowance (we usually did 5 dollars). Both set out to find something for each other. This is fun-- especially if you have a time limit and know what the other person needs. When we got our used car Beth bought some handy car gadgets.
This is a rather short and lame list. I hope you have a great Valentines Day, married, dating, single, it's complicated, or whatever. Don't let the materialism get in the way of showing love to the people in your life. And don't limit showing your love to only one day.
But most importantly: Beware the Ides of February, it's good practice.
This post is total bribery. Thanks for the link love, Tim.