Submitted by Kristen on Tue, 12/09/2008 - 22:42.
It’s been awhile since we last posted. Blame it on thanksgiving travel and writer’s block if you’d like. We are now back in Bellevue, braving the cold and working hard these three weeks in between holidays. It certainly is a blessing to be near family this season, and we enjoy every moment of it. And although upcoming Christmas is a day full of joy and merry-making, it can be a bit rough on the old wallet. Last time we opened up a discussion on appropriate spending over the holidays and some thought-provoking conversations ensued. One commenter posed the question, “how can you break the cycle of consumerism with Samantha?” – alluding to trends that lead to a self-focused Christmas.
After discussing it further, here are some principals and practical spending applications that we want to implement in our family’s approach to Christmas.
After discussing it further, here are some principals and practical spending applications that we want to implement in our family’s approach to Christmas.
• Being a Christ-following family, above all we want to make the season about JESUS, keeping the story of HIS birth at center; a nativity set would be a good reminder, we don’t have one yet, so we’ll make this one time purchase.
• Strictly as a family, have some special time in the house where we create memories (make traditions, play games, feast, ect.) Also as a family, spend time out getting involved in blessing others (volunteering at a soup kitchen, nursing home, caroling, etc.). None of these have to cost much and all will help make the season about family.
• For gifts, we were thinking one per child that is both meaningful and promotes otherness; getting Samantha a board book that we can spend time reading together is a good example. As well as gifts within the family, we would give each child some money to buy a gift for a peer in a hard situation. The kids would be the ones to pick it out, buy it, and give it away. This tradition would make the season about giving.
On a side note, Michael’s great-grandmother passed away this past month. She was 106. Nana was an incredible woman whose parents immigrated from Czechoslovakia and farmed the soil of central Nebraska, crossing the plains by covered wagon. While reading through some of her remarkable memoirs, I stumbled upon this quote that brings the message home.
“I pity today’s children with their over abundance of toys. How much more fun for them and their ingenuity would grow if they’d have to create some of their fun time. It’s sad to take that away from them, but they claim that’s progress…maybe.”
-Elsie Krejci Kluck, early 1900’s.
Sometimes to look forward, it helps to look back.
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